There are no mistakes. There are only choices. Once made sometimes we learn very quickly that the outcome is not what we desired. Thus it becomes an opportunity for a new choice. That does not make it a mistake, it makes it an opportunity for change. Please do not distract yourself by labelling my writing.…
It is remarkable how easily we can be persuaded out of our comfortable lives and into negative thoughts or energy around another. Take for example the “constantly negative news”. How quick we can be to judge what we know almost nothing about. I can remember many years ago when people would ask me about something…
Easter is just past and in the Christian tradition it means a renewal has occurred. The story tells us that the messiah has arrived for the believers and he has in fact died for his followers and been reborn. Hence all his followers need do is to believe and also be reborn without human failings…
One of the most important pursuits of humankind is in fact love. “Love is a many splendored thing” as the line goes in a famous song. Love is like a building although sometimes romantic love may feel more like a house of cards. The reason I see love as a building is that there are…
There are many aspects to being a loving person. It happens not just in our bedrooms but first in the great conceptual design of the universe, then in our brains and finally in our bodies. We embody love in three ways, the thoughts, the actions and the attractions. We embody love in our thoughts by…
How we communicate is every bit as important as what we are communicating. Too often we may choose to spend time on being clear in our message when in fact we need to spend equal amounts of time being considerate. How we act towards others will influence how others respond to us. Does it always…
How often I have heard what I refer to as the three great mistakes of relationships? In truth, I may have even said one or two of them myself…smile. These three simple yet profound statements which I call the three false promises are thoughts or beliefs that will undermine your most intimate relationship: I need…
Like so many things in modern North American society, Thanksgiving can trace it origins back to the Christian tradition. Thanks giving was actually a Christian practice that took place in church and was usually to mark a specific event and thank God, in fact it was often used for giving thanks for the righteous triumph in…