How often I have thought I must find the right answer for myself. For some reason the fact that I live at the same time as six billion other people did not seem to mean I could ask one of them…smile. Perhaps you have made the same choice yourself at some time. How happy I…
Love is everywhere. I wanted to spend a moment sharing and expressing my love for Pedro. This is the most beautiful example I could find of my husband’s favorite flower. His mother grew orchids when he was a child and they have always been his favorite. To me they have always been a special, unique…
How often I have heard what I refer to as the three great mistakes of relationships? In truth, I may have even said one or two of them myself…smile. These three simple yet profound statements which I call the three false promises are thoughts or beliefs that will undermine your most intimate relationship: I need…
We are not just building our lives. We have a much bigger role. We are the architects of our own success. Architects not only design they also ensure that it can be built and used as designed. Now this can be both scary and exhilarating at the same time. Sometimes it is even difficult to…
How wonderful it would be if the dominant thought in our minds was always YES. We would be more artistic or more dramatic or even, dare I say it, much happier if we only said YES more often. It is not always easy to arrive at the destination YES (obviously a Canadian airport seeing as…
Isn’t it time to start loving yourself more. So often we are searching for something outside ourselves to feel good when in reality we need to just take a few moments to really love ourselves as we are now. Spirituality always includes sensuality. Sensuality does not always include sexuality though it does not shun it…
Someone wrote to me the other day after reading my Blog and said “I didn’t know you were a religious person” and my first thought was “I am not”. As I responded to his kind e-mail I found myself writing that I considered myself to be spiritual but not really religious. I am not saying…
Happiness is the natural state of mind which exists when we strip away all the worries and stories of unhappiness from our daily living. Each of us was born with a happy spirit. I believe it is necessary for the birth process to complete itself. Those spirits who cannot enter into the world happy simply…
One of the necessities of life is water. Science teaches us that biological life forms all share one thing in common, we require water. The conditions of the water can vary, sometimes to an extreme and yet life can still survive there. This may be all that is required for the physicality of life but…
One of my goals in life is to reduce conflict. In order to do this I have a “main question” that I use to test my thoughts, words and actions against. It is a simple question with often profound answers revealed to me. The question is: What does love look like now? All too often…