If you want to infatuate your lover then celebrate them. Infatuation exists when we have no reason to love other than love itself and we can act in spontaneous and even irrational ways. Now that is a love worth having! In my model of the 5C’s to successful relationships the last C is perhaps the…
No modern building could exist if we did not learn to collaborate. Hundreds of people collaborate in order to bring any modern structure off paper and into our physical reality. Collaboration is the pinnacle of human endeavour. All the greatest achievements have been the result of people working together. It follows that the greatest achievements…
This tulip has no problem showing up as a tulip. It did not have to choose between being a rose or a daffodil. It knew from the start it was a tulip and it remains a tulip now. Each strand of DNA works in harmony to ensure the various parts of the tulip are developed…
Conflict has always and will always continue in our society and for very good reason. Difference of opinion is what builds a more cohesive society as we learn healthy and positive ways to both understand and resolve conflict. The same is true in our personal and intimate relationships. Conflict happens. When it happens it is…
How we communicate about love is important to establishing a foundation in our relationships. And when I talk about communicating I am not really talking about how we touch the body, I am referring to how we touch the heart of another. I have made a promise to my husband. I have said that I…
Love is the glue that truly binds the universe together but it is not always a given in our relationships, it must always be treated as a gift. Have you said thank you to your husband or wife lately? Have you told him or her how important they are in your life? There are two sides…
There are many ways to succeed in our lives. Sometimes we need to unlock our potential and sometimes we need to lock away other aspects of our personality that do not support us. Knowing what to unlock and what to lock-up are the key (nothing like a bit of pun) to our success. I am…
The first of my 5 C’s for building and maintaining a healthy relationship is Communication. Communication over distance has been particularly challenging for Pedro and I not to mention his first language is spanish and mine is english. But, as they say, love conquers all and we have worked to ensure good communications. And that…