If you want to infatuate your lover then celebrate them. Infatuation exists when we have no reason to love other than love itself and we can act in spontaneous and even irrational ways. Now that is a love worth having! In my model of the 5C’s to successful relationships the last C is perhaps the…
No modern building could exist if we did not learn to collaborate. Hundreds of people collaborate in order to bring any modern structure off paper and into our physical reality. Collaboration is the pinnacle of human endeavour. All the greatest achievements have been the result of people working together. It follows that the greatest achievements…
This tulip has no problem showing up as a tulip. It did not have to choose between being a rose or a daffodil. It knew from the start it was a tulip and it remains a tulip now. Each strand of DNA works in harmony to ensure the various parts of the tulip are developed…
Conflict has always and will always continue in our society and for very good reason. Difference of opinion is what builds a more cohesive society as we learn healthy and positive ways to both understand and resolve conflict. The same is true in our personal and intimate relationships. Conflict happens. When it happens it is…
How we communicate about love is important to establishing a foundation in our relationships. And when I talk about communicating I am not really talking about how we touch the body, I am referring to how we touch the heart of another. I have made a promise to my husband. I have said that I…
Meditate on this fact. How we treat others is 100% a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. If we are feeling bad about ourselves then our behaviour towards others will be reflect it. If we are feeling happy about ourselves tand our lives then it will be evident in our communications with others. Why is…
Have you ever noticed it is often not all that important what is going on in the rest of the world? In fact it is very important what is going on in our own world. We may glance at the news, or more than glance but relentlessly we come back to concentrate on our…
Love is the glue that truly binds the universe together but it is not always a given in our relationships, it must always be treated as a gift. Have you said thank you to your husband or wife lately? Have you told him or her how important they are in your life? There are two sides…
There is a key to success in our lives. It is not always the easiest key to use. Sometimes our “locks” get stuck and if you are anything like me there is nothing worse than getting stuck. The simple concept is the title of this blog today. What we can conceive and to the extent…
An attitude of gratitude pays off in the highest from of dividends and the great news is, they are tax free! Sometimes I find it a challenge to say thank you for everything that is in my life. I mean really, do I have to say thank you when I am feeling fear? Is it…