Get this, avoid that, here’s how…

starry night - istockphotoAre you searching for heaven on earth or is your life a living hell? Either way it is pretty clear that we get what we believe. In fact, the funniest thing is that one person’s version of a living hell (for example my mother jumping out of a plane with a parachute) could be another’s heavenly delight (my friend who has done it more than a dozen times).

So what is this thing called “belief” and how easy is it to change? The answer is, wait for it, it is as easy to change as you believe it can and will be! Okay, I am not trying to frustrate you, I am trying to illustrate that it is a foundational principle. So we believe shall we conceive. So start by telling yourself it is easy and I will share with share with you how I do it. And for my illustration I am going to use a real and current issue. After all if I cannot prove my belief to myself, how can I expect anyone else to understand it?

Right now I am “stuck” at 205 pounds. Somehow I have created the belief that getting under the “magic” 200 is somehow difficult or challenging. I have been hovering for a few weeks around the same number but always above 200 pounds. So starting tonight I change my belief. It is no longer a challenge, it is a celebration of ease. I no longer work at it I enjoy the sweet scent of success.

I am feeling lighter already and so it is.




My vision is a world where conflict is communicated and used to stimulate personal freedom and expression for all mankind. My mandate is to reduce conflict using love as my primary tool. My life's work is to learn and then share my learning with others. I am supported by a wonderful loving husband named Pedro, a loving family and many friends. I derive income from helping my clients build and protect their wealth as a financial planner and occasionally from spiritual fitness coaching and speaking engagements. 

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